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Studying abroad can be exciting, transformative and sometimes overwhelming. For international students pursuing graduate education in the United States, the experience often includes cultural surprises, new academic expectations and the challenge of building community far from home. In this episode, students from Nigeria, Poland and Ghana share how they adapted to life in the U.S. and what they wish others understood about studying abroad.

Abisola鈥檚 Story: Expectations of the U.S. Sometimes Differ from Reality

Many international students arrive with ideas about the United States shaped by movies, television and media. But everyday life in the U.S. can feel very different once they arrive. This was true for Abisola, who moved from Nigeria to pursue a master鈥檚 in health science.

鈥淚 expected it to be more, should I call it, bougie?鈥� she said when asked about her first impressions. 鈥淢ore classy than what I see now.鈥�

Though life in America wasn鈥檛 quite like the movies, she found aspects of life in Maryland surprising鈥攅specially the cost of living and the need to carefully manage expenses.

Abisola initially felt the contrast between the strong sense of community she experienced back home and the more individualistic lifestyle she encountered in the U.S.

鈥淏ack home, if you want to pay your rent, you actually pay once a year, but right here it's once a month,鈥� she said. 鈥淪o it was really shocking to me that I have to pay rent every month.鈥�

Adjusting to social norms also took time, including punctuality and the fast-paced nature of daily life.

鈥淪o it's like everyone is busy,鈥� she said. 鈥淚t makes me feel like I'm the less busy one鈥� like I have to find something to do because everyone has something they're doing.鈥�

Abisola initially felt the contrast between the strong sense of community she experienced back home and the more individualistic lifestyle she encountered in the U.S. Wanting to create meaning from that experience, she started a podcast about personal growth and began volunteering in the community. Through those efforts, she found ways to build her own sense of purpose and connection while continuing her academic journey.

Adrian鈥檚 Story: Finding Community in a New Country  

For Adrian, who moved from Poland to study Supply Chain Management in the United States, some of the biggest surprises were practical ones鈥攅specially transportation.

鈥淒efinitely the car dependency,鈥� he said. 鈥�...I was looking for like public transportation... by bus, by tram, by train, just anything...I never thought about buying a car, but I quickly realized there's no options. There's no choices.鈥�

Beyond daily logistics, Adrian also had to adjust to differences in the classroom. In Poland, he said, education tends to be more formal and structured.

鈥淚n Poland, the education system is very strict... We didn't really ask questions of our professors,鈥� he explained. 鈥淐oming to United States, I was surprised how especially like in college, kids in the classroom they, they also feel more comfortable with the professor. They ask questions. They have more relations with the professor. It's almost like a conversation in the classroom.鈥�

Language also created early challenges. Even though Adrian spoke English well, adjusting to new accents and voices made lectures difficult to follow at first.

鈥�...I couldn鈥檛 understand like half of the lecture,鈥� he said. 鈥淪o, I would just sit there and understand some words. I would have to go home and like, read the book again."

...I was surprised how especially like in college, kids in the classroom they, they also feel more comfortable with the professor. They ask questions. 

Adrian

Over time, Adrian built confidence by getting involved on campus. He joined the Supply Chain Club and eventually stepped into a leadership role.

鈥淪o I raised my hand and I was like, 鈥榟ey, I want to be vice president.鈥� And they let me do it,鈥� he said. 鈥淎nd looking back, I never thought this would happen, but it did happen. So I just had to try. I had to push myself to do it to be there, to be exposed.鈥�

What started as uncertainty, navigating a new country, classroom and language, eventually became an opportunity for growth. By putting himself out there, Adrian found confidence, community and a place for himself on campus.

Herty鈥檚 Story: Showing Up as Yourself in the Classroom

This is the second time Herty has left Ghana to study in the US. This time, it鈥檚 to earn her master鈥檚 degree in Communication and Advocacy at 撸先生. Though pursing her second degree in the U.S., Herty shared that she still felt nervous during her first days of class.

鈥淚t was nerve-wracking because I didn鈥檛 know anybody,鈥� she said. 鈥淚 was very careful of my choice of words because I didn鈥檛 know what to say.鈥�

Instead of withdrawing, she focused on building connections and sharing her own cultural perspective.

"Even though coming from a different background I'm coming with a different experience and culture background, which is also rich,鈥� she said. 鈥淪o I thought of it as how can I balance it out to help myself. So if there's a conversation that's going on in the classroom that I feel I can contribute to that conversation based on my experience and my perspective, and make other people also understand...and get to know more about me.鈥�

It was nerve-wracking because I didn鈥檛 know anybody. I was very careful of my choice of words because I didn鈥檛 know what to say.

Herty

That mindset helped her find community both within international student groups and among American classmates. Today, she encourages other international students to approach the experience with patience and openness.

鈥淚 would say have an open mind,鈥� she said. 鈥淎llow yourself to go through the process, like especially when you get in here, give yourself some grace because you are in a new space that is completely different from what you've been used to your whole life.鈥�

By embracing her differences and leaning into new experiences, Herty was able to build meaningful connections and a sense of belonging. Her story highlights how openness and a strong sense of self can help navigate uncertainty. 

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